Why is it so easy to fall in love but so damn hard to keep it work? And do not give me this “if it’s difficult it’s not good for you or meant to be” shit! Because why would anyone ever think that putting effort into someone you love is not worth it? If you have to work on a relationship, that’s a good thing. It means progress. Experience.
Getting to know a person you like completely - it can be devasting. No, certainly it is. But if your love is pure and equal and kind.. then even the universe can’t stop you.
And don’t think of it as naive. It’s not. It’s innocent and loyal and it’s something most human beings are not able to express anymore.
"why dont you just give him a chance"
idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested
Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts
I rather have no chance with someone instead of being with someone just because I am nice. There’s more to human intercourse than this shit if you want it to be good.
there is a reason I’m single and it’s called my face